“Why do I even love you?”

(My Thoughts:)

This is a question when you come across a therapist when dealing with love related problems, such as marriage and relationships. Sometimes when you ask yourself why do I even love you? You then realize that sometimes it’s not love but comfort. You don’t want to be alone because of physical comfort, in return you stick to your partner. Some people obviously start with love then slowly the love fades but this is a question we must ask. Try it out write the answers on paper.

50/50

As you may be aware that 50% of all marriages end up in a divorce and the ones that don’t doesn’t mean it’s great to begin with. Therefore, I really think that 70% of all marriages are really just having someone by your side with no true love. Perhaps, as the most obvious is: Comfort. Yes, comfort is most reason why people are really together. Once you get to know someone, it really doesn’t matter who they really are anymore as you know them very well. Almost as if you know yourself, kind of like that feeling.

True Love

When true love comes in place nothing can separate it from it. For example, if a girl loves a guy she will do whatever it takes to make sure that guy ends up with her. That is the power the woman have and if the guy loves her than they may just end up in true love. However, what I really mean by true love is the 3% of the population. This is when both partners love each other to the end and nothing can stop them. They work together into progress and they make it to the top because nothing can stop them as they love each other. This 3% succeed in everything including work. Be that 3% as I like to say it.