“Why do u think that she/he is responsible for your happiness?”

(My Thoughts:)

This is a hidden question that people don’t realize after they have broken up. For example, when a couple breakup they are sad for a while and sure this is natural. However, the secret thought that is missing in the sadness is just this: “Why do u think that she/he is responsible for your happiness?”

In other words, you have built a bond that relies to each other, and it is not necessarily true. Sure, it happens is part of relationships but not really. We create these emotional feelings that at the end of the day it is us and not them. We are really in ourselves and not the other person, therefore all feelings are created by us.

Don’t Rely 

In reality, you don’t want to rely on the other person, and you want your life to be in your own way. Sure, this is hard to accomplish but at the end of the day you are you and the other person is he/she. In other words, don’t let the other person be responsible for your happiness when you are the one in control of it.

Sadly

As much as we say “I Love You” or whatever it is that you may say, it’s sad when relationships come to an end. When it is over, now you have to create a different lifestyle that you were used to for so long. At the same time, everything in life happens for a reason and there is no sadness that should come. Why? Because we are responsible for our own feelings and we create them. Not the other person, but us. For this reason, it is important to be a stronger you and stand up for yourself by accepting that you are who you are and not the other person.