“Love cures people – both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.” – Karl A. Menninger

My Thoughts:

I really think that love does actually cure people in a way that makes them feel whole. At least they feel loved if everything else isn’t going great. However, love isn’t actually going so well to many people out there. So, as much as it cures people, it also destroys them. This doesn’t mean that life is over, it just means you got to find another lover which that is hard work. As you are used to the person you are with now, it only takes nothing but more work to get used to another person.

Give And Receive 

In most relationships there is always the one person who keeps giving and the other receiving. My point is that it should be two ways. Meaning 50/50, on other words both partners should give and receive equally. What happens when one keeps giving more, is that person starts to get tired of giving. Later on this person starts to get exhausted from giving and starts looking for something else. This is why it is important for both partners to go equal on the giving and receiving.

Sex

This is as true for the sex as well. When one person keeps exciting the other, that person starts to get annoyed and in return doesn’t get anything. For short period of times, it can work. However, on long relationships this giving in sex just starts to get overwhelming. Also, the partner who keeps on giving starts shifting in the brain that maybe the love is falling apart. The one who keeps on receiving is enjoying it but needs to realize that that person needs to put the work in too.

Got to go equal in all relationships otherwise things start to fall apart.