“I have never met an aggressive person who wasn’t a fearful person.” – John Bradshaw

My Thoughts: 

It is kind of weird as today I had a dream of a friend that is very aggressive. He is a very good friend, but as our life paths have changed, we are not really hanging out that much anymore. I see him sometimes, but in the past for so many years we were hanging out on daily basis. I really miss those days and I had the best of fun with him. He is just couple years older, and I really had one of the best laughs with him.

Aggressive is Fearful 

Anyway, what I want to mention is that this friend of mine is very aggressive in everything he does. My dream, we stole a Bently, and we got away with it and he drove it off like super aggressive. So far in the dream we have not gotten caught, but the way he drove the car it sure made me enjoy it. I felt like I need to be as aggressive as this guy. However, the point I want to get across is that possibly he is aggressive because he is hiding from too many fears that he might be having. This is common behavior to some people.

I haven’t seen him for a while because we both are busy doing other stuff. I hope we can hangout soon to catch on up on some stuff. But his aggressiveness is something I wish I could have. Not that I want it as of course I have my own character. But I’m really weak and exactly the opposite of aggressive. As I see him looking so strong, I sometimes get jealous that his so tough as a person. But now I’m aware as what John Bradshaw says in the quote: That his aggressive could be caused of fears.